Problem in localisation of primary menus when using Active Translation and Select Translation modules

I'm having problems with my multilingual site. The site has two languages. For some content that is in default language and has not been translated into the other language it is important to show it to the user. To solve this I'm using Select Translation module for Views and Active Translation module for the site nodes. For these modules to work I have to select "All content. No language conditions apply." in Multilingual System configuration.

My problem is when trying to translate Primary Menus. I use the i18n module for translating the menus. When I do the translations, all the translations show up for the translated menu item (links for all the nodes in different languages). If I select "Mixed current language (if available) or default language (if not) and language neutral." the Primary Menus work ok but Active Translation and Select Translation stop working.

Does anybody have any idea how to solve this problem. I want to be able to show the the content in default language if it has not been translated into users language and I want to localise also the Primary Menus. I would like to use the menu translation provided by the i18n module.